when a person dies, who do people mourn for? do they mourn for the person that died? that person is dead. they are gone and nothing can undo it. a person is only really mourning for themselves. they are the one that is sad they will never see the dead person again. they are sad that they can never talk or enjoy life with that person again. so.. cheer up. life continues. until death. then accept it.
my addition to this post is that im sorry that it is blunt. but that is my writing style and i meant it in a good way. so dont hate me because of this post, please.